July 31, 2009

Entertainment via REALTY Shows

Well Indian TV audience are getting taste of 2nd phase of realty shows. The current lot of Shows like "Mujhe is Jungle Se bachao" or; Sach Ka Samna or the Splitsville of MTV are also getting due publicity for thier unaurthodox views and format.

Producers and Channels have grown up post BIG BOSS but probably Indian Society is not. People are not comfortable to accept these programs openly though their hypocratic nature is making them these shows every day.

The fan following of "is jungle....." good, people want to see others spending their life in remote locations, why they are more intersted in listening to conversions of them and ignoring the sound of their own spouce and kids. The shower glipms of this program are aired to capture more eyeballs for the show. what is this ? what are we doing to promote our shows? where is the entertainment in seeing this? a TV is watched more in common living room in India against personal rooms of west, so why we are allowing all this..
Why in the name of truth we are exposing one personality in public view and making them earn by this uncovering of relations?

These are not good signs.... People involved as a participants also need to understand their moral responsibility and use thier IQ. They can not pollute society for some rupees.


Why we indian show producers are more open to copy programs rather inventing some new formats. Indian culture and social diversity can give many clues to have good healthy entertainment for entire family.

Even Advertisements of Condoms, Sanitary pads and anti pregnancy drugs create discomfort as small kid also enquire about these ads and even copy these ads by singing the jingles.

July 20, 2009

Parenting - the trend of neglecting Child

In todays' competitive world people are becoming more and more career oriented. They are keen to establish themselves first in their repective area of profession and only after attanin the desired level only these boys or girls are planning for thier marriage and have family.

This career orientation of younger geeration has raised the average marriageable age to 27-30 years for boy and 25 to 28 years for girls. Getting marriage at these ages is not called late marriage as comparied to late 60s and 70s.

For these career oriented people kids are also not first priority, as mostly they want just one kid and that too after enjoying married life for 2-3 after marriage. So they get thier first child almost in early 30s. Again kid needs time and personal care from parents.

But most of the time these parent avoid or neglect the basic human bonding with their kid due to extream office pressure or ignorance due to lack of joint families.

They want to earn and collect maximum before marriage, birth of a child and even after for many milestones of life, but they lack the human caring and sharing.

young parents should know earning big money is important for many other aspects of life. but a kid need time of parent first than money and other material comforts.

We should think of this current shift in Parening of young couples/ parents.

July 17, 2009

Rape of Indian Democracy

Where are the actual rape victims? No body is bothered about them, neither local administration nor the police of Uttar Pradesh.

The real issue of rape victims is almost forgotten and statements of so called people’s representatives are making news. Each one is accusing other for misuse of powers and others capacity to raise voice in favor of those unprivileged and backwards who are looking up these politicians and leaders to help them join the main stream of development. Leaders are fighting for their interests nor the interest of actual parties.

No body is sure what one has said about other, but one thing is sure that you should not utter smallest of disagreement with people in power.

Burning of opponents’ house and putting them in jail by putting serious allegations has become norm of today’s politics. I feel it as a real rape of politics in India. We should be ashamed of it.

It’s a tussle of big names like Sonia Gandhi, Mayawati and Rita Bahuguna and many more stalwarts of Indian Politics, we will see who wins. But one this is known to everybody that it is defeat of Indian Politics and degrading of political values and thoughts.

July 5, 2009

The Gay India

The recent High Court Judgment to allow sex among consenting adults of same sex has created furor across the country. People in metros and so called big A class cities are celebrating as freedom attaned from British Raj.

India does boast places like Khajuraho and Konark where anyone can have evidence of oral, anal or even sex with animals. These sculpture on people indulged in sexual act are not made to promote erotica, they were dipiction of knowledge. when things like this prevailing in society since ages, why to make so much noise.

Sex between two consenting adult is not a mere fact of choice it is the outcome of strife battle of fittest and available opportunities. the falling sex ratio in states like Punjab, Haryana, Gujrat etc will definatly call for lifting of ban against GAY movement in India.

Due to stressful life urban life and survival of fittest feeling has left many to explore and satisfy their physical requirements with easily available options.

Artcile 377 need a retrospection and other laws related to rape, sexual harrasement, human rights etc need due amendments to give them more teeth as people with purterbed mind will try to take help of relaxation given in article 377.

Indian culture has been leader to teach principals of life to many other civilisation and societies but the learning it is making from them is not so good.
logics dont permit sexual relations among same sex.

Ration for family, if kid goes to school

It would be rare decision taken by government to have better ustilisation of relief provided to masses. The recent discussion and contemplation by a minister in UP state government is to be analysed. Its a great thought to allow ration to people living below the poverty line only when the children of the family is attending school.

If this suggesiton incorporated as rule, it will certainly help in promoting children's attendance in the primary schools. To get benefits of BPL card holders they need to make thier child literate and thereby government can take a chance to break the vicious circle of poverty by providing much needed education to these underpriveledged class. The logic applied in this respect is truly simple and good.

July 3, 2009

Simple movies great directors

In India bollywood is the main entertainer. There was a period of early 80s when great directors like Hrishikesh Mukherji, Sai Paranjpe, Gulzar, MAhesh Bhatt were used to make movies that were light and capable of entertaining whole family.
those soft comedy like Katha, Jane Bhi Do yaron, Chashm-e-badoor, Arth, Sath Sath etc Are timeless creations. Even today people remember Actors like Farooq Sheikh, Ravi Vaswani, Satish Shah, Naseerudeen Shah, Dipti Naval, Satish kaushik etc for their smooth acting.
Why they have stopped working ? any logics ?

Emotions with Capital 'I'

We love many and wish to be loved by many. things remain under control as long as our emotions are governing our actions and we are in softer mood. Things go topsy tervy when we start controlling our emotion and our ego the 'I' comes infront.
This Ego is very tricky, if we are governed more by it we start neglecting others' point of views and the problems start taking shape. People start neglecting us. Instead of getting I accepted by others we see I is being rejected by them.
A big 'I' leave us alone we come 1 by trying to projecting 'I'.
So be careful. use your IQ to maintain yourself by accepting others and getting yourself accepted by them.